He will only withdraw further

Dating an unavailable man

Believe me, jumping on seemingly unavailable men with a muddy or newly changed relationship status is never good news. Don't try to force yourself unto him asking for attention and affection.

For some, spending time together in the same room is off the table until the situation is permanent. When he's hot, reciprocate that, this is your time to establish bonding. He focuses on small things like the way you talk or dress.

The less you are attached and act eager, the safer he feels and the more he wants to come closer and spend more time with you. At this point, all he wants is to forget his ex, or even worse, replicate her. You may want to sit down and spend some time thinking about this.

But he may never be able to meet your need for closeness. He is not there for you at all, for anything you need, big or small. As a woman dating an emotionally distant man, you run the risk of being shut down repeatedly and every effort you make to get closer can be rebuffed. He decides to apply for a job out of state without asking you how you would feel about it. They are charming, broken, brooding, or drunk.

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